2 - 3 May

Vampire Tour of San Francisco
Nob Hill
8pm - 10pm
www.sfvampiretour.com
(650) 279-1840

The tour is held every Friday and Saturday night (unless it is raining). Special or private tours can also be arranged on any other night or weekend days. Meet Mina on the corner of California and Taylor Streets, just outside Huntington Park. She will tell you the history of each of these stops, and how vampires played a role in that history. You will also hear about some of San Francisco's other famous treasures. The tour has been described as "History with a Twist."

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3 May

Barry and Shell's
East Bay
barryandshells.com
(510) 834-5808

Barry and Shell welcome couples 21 and over into their East Bay hills home. New guests may arrive early for a tour of this luxurious space which includes an indoor hot tub, and rooms for couples both public and private. Call for reservations.

Barely Legal presents "Rocky Horror Picture Show"
Parkway Cinema at 1834 Park Blvd, Oakland
barelylegal.rhps.org/
(510) 814-2400

Barely Legal is a live performance cast which performs The Rocky Horror Picture Show every Saturday night at midnight! The Parkway is the perfect venue for Barely Legal's sleek, fun, exciting, professional show with its beautiful stage, comfortable couches, and incredible environment. The theatre serves delicious pizza, snacks and soda. Come watch Rocky Horror in style! Barely Legal puts on a very professional show complete with full stage props, incredible performances, exciting pre-shows, and audience participation. Tickets are only $6. Come to the Parkway for the best Rocky Horror experience you've ever had. This show is 17 and Older Only, I.D.'s will be checked at the door, no exceptions!

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6 May

Trannyshack at The Stud
The Stud Bar, 399 9th Street at Harrison
10pm - 3am, show at midnight
www.heklina.com
(415) 252-STUD

Every Tuesday night, Trannyshack is part dance club, part burlesque, and altogether a totally fabulous time. The crowd (and we mean "crowd," as it tends to get packed) is a mix of transsexuals, transsexual admirers and people who show up just to have a blast. The music is equally eclectic and couldn't possibly be pinned down to one genre. Best of all, at midnight when the Muppet Show theme plays ("It's time to put on makeup, it's time to light the lights..."), it's show time! The vaudeville-style quips begin to fly, in between short drag show acts which can range from Cher to Madonna. Cost is $6 cover.

Pleasurable Pain
Good Vibrations
1620 Polk Street @Sacramento Street, San Francisco
8pm - 10pm
www.goodvibes.com
(415) 974-8980

In our day to day lives, we understandably avoid things that make us go "ouch." But what happens when the things that make us go "ouch" also make us go "ooooooooooh"? Sometimes the line between pleasure and pain can be hard to discern, and this class is designed to help you negotiate it safely. Demonstration topics will include how to provide a good warm up; how to layer sensations; spanking, paddling, strapping and caning; face slapping; hair pulling; nipple torment and genital torment, with a special emphasis on how and why these acts can feel really good! $25, Pre-registration is suggested, everyone welcome.

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7 May

Bondage-a-Go-Go
Cat Club at 1190 Folsom Street
www.bondage-a-go-go.com

A club by perverts for perverts every Wednesday, the Bondage-A-Go-Go has been a sanctuary for the tattooed, pierced, scarified and misanthropic since 1993. Interactive BDSM, cocktails, dancing and unspeakable forms of socialization are the driving force behind this event, featuring an industrial/goth dance macabre courtesy of DJs Damon and Fernando. DJs Jorge and Big Bad Bill spin 70s rock fantasia in the front room, interactive BDSM with Dungeon Master Hawk, and delectable go-go dancers complete the visual feast. Bondage-A-Go-Go is a San Francisco institution and the City's longest running fetish dance party.

Power Exchange Sex Club - Wet Wednesday
74 Otis St. @ Gough
9pm 3am
www.powerexchange.com
[email protected]
(415) 487-9944

Hey Girls!!! Last party had a great turn out, and the next one is expected to be equally as good. It's in the Banquet Room on the main floor of the Power Exchange. Make sure to come to this class if you have any questions or curiosity about BDSM and safe play!!! $5 before 10pm, $7 after 10pm. 8+ w/ valid ID.

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9 - 10 May

Vampire Tour of San Francisco
Nob Hill
8pm - 10pm
www.sfvampiretour.com
(650) 279-1840

The tour is held every Friday and Saturday night (unless it is raining). Special or private tours can also be arranged on any other night or weekend days. Meet Mina on the corner of California and Taylor Streets, just outside Huntington Park. She will tell you the history of each of these stops, and how vampires played a role in that history. You will also hear about some of San Francisco's other famous treasures. The tour has been described as "History with a Twist."

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10 May

Barry and Shell's
East Bay
barryandshells.com
(510) 834-5808

Barry and Shell welcome couples 21 and over into their East Bay hills home. New guests may arrive early for a tour of this luxurious space which includes an indoor hot tub, and rooms for couples both public and private. Call for reservations.

Barely Legal presents "Rocky Horror Picture Show"
Parkway Cinema at 1834 Park Blvd, Oakland
barelylegal.rhps.org
(510) 814-2400

Barely Legal is a live performance cast which performs The Rocky Horror Picture Show every Saturday night at midnight! The Parkway is the perfect venue for Barely Legal's sleek, fun, exciting, professional show with its beautiful stage, comfortable couches, and incredible environment. The theatre serves delicious pizza, snacks and soda. Come watch Rocky Horror in style! Barely Legal puts on a very professional show complete with full stage props, incredible performances, exciting pre-shows, and audience participation. Tickets are only $6. Come to the Parkway for the best Rocky Horror experience you've ever had. This show is 17 and Older Only, I.D.'s will be checked at the door, no exceptions!

Society of Janus San Francisco Munch
Thirsty Bear, 661 Howard Street, San Francisco
12pm - 2pm
www.soj.org
(415) 292-3222

This gathering is held every second Saturday of the month and is sponsored by The Society of Janus as an outreach activity, a chance to meet and network with like minded kinky people, Janus members and non-members alike. If you are a new member, or just have been interested, it's a good place to meet other members. Also, see the Community events calendar for more details.

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13 May

Trannyshack at The Stud
The Stud Bar, 399 9th Street at Harrison
10pm - 3am, show at midnight
www.heklina.com
(415) 252-STUD

Every Tuesday night, Trannyshack is part dance club, part burlesque, and altogether a totally fabulous time. The crowd (and we mean "crowd," as it tends to get packed) is a mix of transsexuals, transsexual admirers and people who show up just to have a blast. The music is equally eclectic and couldn't possibly be pinned down to one genre. Best of all, at midnight when the Muppet Show theme plays ("It's time to put on makeup, it's time to light the lights..."), it's show time! The vaudeville-style quips begin to fly, in between short drag show acts which can range from Cher to Madonna. Cost is $6 cover.

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14 May

Bondage-a-Go-Go
Cat Club at 1190 Folsom Street
www.bondage-a-go-go.com

A club by perverts for perverts every Wednesday, the Bondage-A-Go-Go has been a sanctuary for the tattooed, pierced, scarified and misanthropic since 1993. Interactive BDSM, cocktails, dancing and unspeakable forms of socialization are the driving force behind this event, featuring an industrial/goth dance macabre courtesy of DJs Damon and Fernando. DJs Jorge and Big Bad Bill spin 70s rock fantasia in the front room, interactive BDSM with Dungeon Master Hawk, and delectable go-go dancers complete the visual feast. Bondage-A-Go-Go is a San Francisco institution and the City's longest running fetish dance party.

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16 - 17 May

Vampire Tour of San Francisco
Nob Hill
8pm - 10pm
www.sfvampiretour.com
(650) 279-1840

The tour is held every Friday and Saturday night (unless it is raining). Special or private tours can also be arranged on any other night or weekend days. Meet Mina on the corner of California and Taylor Streets, just outside Huntington Park. She will tell you the history of each of these stops, and how vampires played a role in that history. You will also hear about some of San Francisco's other famous treasures. The tour has been described as "History with a Twist."

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16 - 18 May

Human Awareness Institute - Love, Intimacy and Sexuality Level 1
Harbin Hot Springs, Middletown
5pm Friday - 6pm Sunday
www.hai.org
[email protected]
(800) 800-4117

If your relationships matter most in your life and you'd like to learn how to better communicate with family, friends, and lovers, the Love, Intimacy and Sexuality Level 1 workshop may be for you. Learn to pull strength from within and learn to completely open up, to yourself and to others, listen and to really hear what others are saying, connect (and reconnect) with the people in your life who matter most, remove blocks to intimacy in order to expand your ability to love, embrace your sexuality as a special, and sacred, part of your life, honor yourself and the choices you make, and become the fully realized and loving being you are meant to be. For more info, see the website.

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17 May

Barry and Shell's
East Bay
barryandshells.com
(510) 834-5808

Barry and Shell welcome couples 21 and over into their East Bay hills home. New guests may arrive early for a tour of this luxurious space which includes an indoor hot tub, and rooms for couples both public and private. Call for reservations.

Power Exchange Fetish Ball and Slave Auction
74 Otis St.
9pm - 4am
www.powerexchange.com
(415) 487 9944

The Power Exchange presents its monthly Fetish Ball and Slave Auction, where people from the crowd volunteer to auction themselves off to those in the crowd using the Power Exchange Slave Auction money: everyone gets the first $1000.00 in Play Money free and can purchase additional increments of $1000.00 in Play Money for $10.00 U.S. dollars. You can then use that money to bid for the people auctioning themselves off. The most someone went for is $38,000.00 in auction money. (The actual money Power Exchange makes during the Slave Auctions goes to Elizabeth Glasers Pediatric AIDS foundation.) The people who actually have the nerve to auction themselves off ARE NOT FORCED to play or even interact with those who won the bid for them. The Slave Auctions are for a good cause and�oh, it's a lot of fun!!! So see, spanking and being kinky can be a positive thing. They also now have a boxing/wrestling ring they can have spontaneous amateur wrestling matches. $40 -- Single Men, $40 - Couples, $10 -- Women and Transgenders.

Barely Legal presents "Rocky Horror Picture Show"
Parkway Cinema at 1834 Park Blvd, Oakland
barelylegal.rhps.org
(510) 814-2400

Barely Legal is a live performance cast which performs The Rocky Horror Picture Show every Saturday night at midnight! The Parkway is the perfect venue for Barely Legal's sleek, fun, exciting, professional show with its beautiful stage, comfortable couches, and incredible environment. The theatre serves delicious pizza, snacks and soda. Come watch Rocky Horror in style! Barely Legal puts on a very professional show complete with full stage props, incredible performances, exciting pre-shows, and audience participation. Tickets are only $6. Come to the Parkway for the best Rocky Horror experience you've ever had. This show is 17 and Older Only, I.D.'s will be checked at the door, no exceptions!

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20 May

Trannyshack at The Stud
The Stud Bar, 399 9th Street at Harrison
10pm - 3am, show at midnight
www.heklina.com
(415) 252-STUD

Every Tuesday night, Trannyshack is part dance club, part burlesque, and altogether a totally fabulous time. The crowd (and we mean "crowd," as it tends to get packed) is a mix of transsexuals, transsexual admirers and people who show up just to have a blast. The music is equally eclectic and couldn't possibly be pinned down to one genre. Best of all, at midnight when the Muppet Show theme plays ("It's time to put on makeup, it's time to light the lights..."), it's show time! The vaudeville-style quips begin to fly, in between short drag show acts which can range from Cher to Madonna. Cost is $6 cover.

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21 May

Bondage-a-Go-Go
Cat Club at 1190 Folsom Street
www.bondage-a-go-go.com

A club by perverts for perverts every Wednesday, the Bondage-A-Go-Go has been a sanctuary for the tattooed, pierced, scarified and misanthropic since 1993. Interactive BDSM, cocktails, dancing and unspeakable forms of socialization are the driving force behind this event, featuring an industrial/goth dance macabre courtesy of DJs Damon and Fernando. DJs Jorge and Big Bad Bill spin 70s rock fantasia in the front room, interactive BDSM with Dungeon Master Hawk, and delectable go-go dancers complete the visual feast. Bondage-A-Go-Go is a San Francisco institution and the City's longest running fetish dance party.

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23 May

Power Exchange Play Party (Couples and Single Women Only)
74 Otis St. @ Gough
9pm - 4am
www.powerexchange.com
(415) 487 9944

Sex, Bondage, and lots of Erotic Adult Fun! This is a great time for couples to experience the Power Exchange in a Couples Only environment. There is plenty to do and to see in the different themed rooms. The barracks room is still the hottest room by far, both in temperature and in action. There are constantly 30-40 people that are having fun in this dimly lit room with large black nets. The Video lounge continues to be another hot room for many couples and has several interesting things to watch for most of the night. Try to wear a costume, but make it a sexy or naughty costume that will help make the night even better. A couple consists of a man and a genetic female or two genetic females. $40.00 per couple, single women are $20. NASCA couples that present a valid membership card will receive a $10.00 discount.

Wicked City
2246 Jerrold Ave (at Barneveld), San Francisco
9pm
www.sfgoth.com/clubs/wickedcity
[email protected]

Every fourth Friday of the month, Wicked City presents a new fetish theme with which to tantalize. It's not just any club-Wicked City features everything from hors d'oeuvres to BDSM classes and demonstrations and provoking thematic performances. But those who just need to dance can revel in music running the gambit from techno, industrial and goth to EBM and erotic music in the downstairs area. Those who would prefer to play can wander upstairs to the supervised BDSM playspace. Advance tickets can be purchased at Mr. S, Madame S, Stormy Leather or Dark Garden.

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23 - 24 May

Vampire Tour of San Francisco
Nob Hill
8pm - 10pm
www.sfvampiretour.com
(650) 279-1840

The tour is held every Friday and Saturday night (unless it is raining). Special or private tours can also be arranged on any other night or weekend days. Meet Mina on the corner of California and Taylor Streets, just outside Huntington Park. She will tell you the history of each of these stops, and how vampires played a role in that history. You will also hear about some of San Francisco's other famous treasures. The tour has been described as "History with a Twist."

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24 May

Barry and Shell's
East Bay
barryandshells.com
(510) 834-5808

Barry and Shell welcome couples 21 and over into their East Bay hills home. New guests may arrive early for a tour of this luxurious space which includes an indoor hot tub, and rooms for couples both public and private. Call for reservations.

Barely Legal presents "Rocky Horror Picture Show"
Parkway Cinema at 1834 Park Blvd, Oakland
barelylegal.rhps.org
(510) 814-2400

Barely Legal is a live performance cast which performs The Rocky Horror Picture Show every Saturday night at midnight! The Parkway is the perfect venue for Barely Legal's sleek, fun, exciting, professional show with its beautiful stage, comfortable couches, and incredible environment. The theatre serves delicious pizza, snacks and soda. Come watch Rocky Horror in style! Barely Legal puts on a very professional show complete with full stage props, incredible performances, exciting pre-shows, and audience participation. Tickets are only $6. Come to the Parkway for the best Rocky Horror experience you've ever had. This show is 17 and Older Only, I.D.'s will be checked at the door, no exceptions!

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27 May

Trannyshack at The Stud
The Stud Bar, 399 9th Street at Harrison
10pm - 3am, show at midnight
www.heklina.com
(415) 252-STUD

Every Tuesday night, Trannyshack is part dance club, part burlesque, and altogether a totally fabulous time. The crowd (and we mean "crowd," as it tends to get packed) is a mix of transsexuals, transsexual admirers and people who show up just to have a blast. The music is equally eclectic and couldn't possibly be pinned down to one genre. Best of all, at midnight when the Muppet Show theme plays ("It's time to put on makeup, it's time to light the lights..."), it's show time! The vaudeville-style quips begin to fly, in between short drag show acts which can range from Cher to Madonna. Cost is $6 cover.

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28 May

Bondage-a-Go-Go
Cat Club at 1190 Folsom Street
www.bondage-a-go-go.com

A club by perverts for perverts every Wednesday, the Bondage-A-Go-Go has been a sanctuary for the tattooed, pierced, scarified and misanthropic since 1993. Interactive BDSM, cocktails, dancing and unspeakable forms of socialization are the driving force behind this event, featuring an industrial/goth dance macabre courtesy of DJs Damon and Fernando. DJs Jorge and Big Bad Bill spin 70s rock fantasia in the front room, interactive BDSM with Dungeon Master Hawk, and delectable go-go dancers complete the visual feast. Bondage-A-Go-Go is a San Francisco institution and the City's longest running fetish dance party.

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30 - 31 May

Vampire Tour of San Francisco
Nob Hill
8pm - 10pm
www.sfvampiretour.com
(650) 279-1840

The tour is held every Friday and Saturday night (unless it is raining). Special or private tours can also be arranged on any other night or weekend days. Meet Mina on the corner of California and Taylor Streets, just outside Huntington Park. She will tell you the history of each of these stops, and how vampires played a role in that history. You will also hear about some of San Francisco's other famous treasures. The tour has been described as "History with a Twist."

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31 May

Barry and Shell's
East Bay
barryandshells.com
(510) 834-5808

Barry and Shell welcome couples 21 and over into their East Bay hills home. New guests may arrive early for a tour of this luxurious space which includes an indoor hot tub, and rooms for couples both public and private. Call for reservations.

Barely Legal presents "Rocky Horror Picture Show"
Parkway Cinema at 1834 Park Blvd, Oakland
barelylegal.rhps.org
(510) 814-2400

Barely Legal is a live performance cast which performs The Rocky Horror Picture Show every Saturday night at midnight! The Parkway is the perfect venue for Barely Legal's sleek, fun, exciting, professional show with its beautiful stage, comfortable couches, and incredible environment. The theatre serves delicious pizza, snacks and soda. Come watch Rocky Horror in style! Barely Legal puts on a very professional show complete with full stage props, incredible performances, exciting pre-shows, and audience participation. Tickets are only $6. Come to the Parkway for the best Rocky Horror experience you've ever had. This show is 17 and Older Only, I.D.'s will be checked at the door, no exceptions!

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